Why Everyone’s Talking About Sten Trips and Where to Take Yours
Move over stag dos and hen nights. The new pre wedding party word making waves on boarding passes is the sten trip. Think of it as the ultimate merger between bachelor and bachelorette getaways where squads no longer split but collide into one big festival of friendship champagne and questionable dance moves, one epic, all-inclusive getaway. And let’s be honest it is far more fun to watch the bride’s best friend and the groom’s college roommate attempt to bond over tequila shots than just the boys at a strip club or the gals in pink satin night suits and pretty decor. It’s about celebrating together, in style- not splitting squads across separate journeys.
And the best part? It’s trending hard, especially when your favourite celebs are tapping in too.

Case in point: Selena Gomez just made headlines for sharing stunning glimpses from her Cabo bachelorette with close friends on a yacht, complete with beachside dinners, a mariachi serenade, and a themed “Bride” vibe. On the Bollywood front, Ananya Panday may not have officially tagged it, but her pre-wedding vibes (her or her friends) are already setting travel goals.


So where should you take your sten crew for the pre wedding blowout of dreams? Here is our shortlist of global hotspots each with one unmissable activity that guarantees both bragging rights and Instagram reels.
Mykonos

Activity: A private catamaran sunset sail.
Because nothing says pre marital bonding like blasting Beyoncé while your group balances champagne flutes against the Aegean breeze. The move is to book a boat with a DJ on deck mezze platters in hand and sunsets that make you question why you ever bothered with regular nightlife.
Although not a day trip, this experience provides the perfect ending to a day in beautiful Mykonos. Set sail towards the horizon, with a glass of wine in hand, as the sky transforming into fiery shades of orange and crimson. Let the summer breeze carry away your wedlock worries, as the gentle waves rock the boat and a live DJ keeps spirits high under the slowly darkening sky.
Recommendation: Charter from luxury operators like Set Sail Mykonos, Mykonos Catamaran or Sunset Oia and remember sunglasses that double as hangover shields.
Tulum

Activity: A cenote pool party.
Why settle for a nightclub when you can rave inside a natural limestone sinkhole Mother Nature clearly had a sense of humor because cenotes are part sacred Mayan site part Vegas day club once you add a DJ and margaritas. Hidden deep within the Yucatán jungle lies your private party venue- nature’s most dramatic swimming pool. By day, cenotes shimmer with turquoise clarity, sacred to the Mayans.

By night, they transform into otherworldly dance floors. Picture your group floating under limestone arches as beams of sunlight cut through the cavern ceiling, cocktails in hand, while music echoes off the ancient walls. It is part rave, part ritual, and entirely unforgettable.
Recommendation: Go for Gran Cenote or private bookouts near Dos Ojos. Hire a photographer because the light beams through the cave ceiling like divine approval of your questionable twerking.
Bali

Activity: Flower baths and spa day.
Sten trips are marathons not sprints. Bali is the ultimate reset button with couple friendly spa villas where the whole crew can detox with Balinese massages before plunging into those over the top flower baths. It is wellness with just enough woo woo.
After nights of revelry, Bali invites your sten crew to slow down. Retreat to a spa villa surrounded by rice fields, where aromatic oils, gentle massages, and the sound of trickling fountains melt away every trace of fatigue. Then comes the pièce de résistance: a petal-filled bath, vibrant with colours and fragrant blooms. Recline in the water, sip herbal tea, and laugh with your friends as Bali restores your glow for another round of celebrations.
Recommendation: Ubud’s Karsa Spa or The Kayon Jungle Resort. Book matching floral kimonos for group selfies and lean into the aesthetic.
Ibiza

Activity: Daytime beach club takeover.
You do not need to wait for Pacha after dark when the pool at O Beach Ibiza is already serving thumping bass human sized inflatables and champagne showers before noon. It is the definition of sten trip diplomacy: the groom’s side gets the DJs the bride’s side gets the cabanas everyone gets the sunburn.
Ibiza is synonymous with nightlife, but the true insiders know that the day is when the island comes alive. Picture your group draped across white cabanas as DJs spin pulsing beats by the pool, champagne corks fly, and the Mediterranean sparkles in the background. Human-sized inflatables bob in rhythm, laughter rises over the bass, and the world outside ceases to exist. It is decadent, playful, and very Ibiza.
Recommendation: Reserve a VIP bed at Blue Marlin or O Beach. Budget for bottle service because nothing bonds two families like splitting a three digit magnum.
Cabo

Activity: Clifftop dinner with fireworks.
Cabo proves that sten trips can be bougie and cinematic. Picture dining overlooking El Arco with surprise fireworks that scream romance celebration and slight danger to coastal birds. The vibe is equal parts Hollywood glam and tequila shot chaos.
As dusk falls in Cabo, the sea and sky merge into a canvas of gold. Atop a rugged cliff, tables are dressed with flickering candles and plates of fresh seafood, while the iconic arch of El Arco stands sentinel below. Just as the toast is raised, the night explodes into colour—fireworks lighting up the Pacific, laughter echoing through the air. It is romance, spectacle, and celebration rolled into one unforgettable evening under the stars.
Recommendation: Book The Cape or Sunset Monalisa for a clifftop dinner with private pyrotechnics. Just do not schedule speeches after the fifth round of mezcal.
The Verdict

Sten trips are the natural evolution of pre wedding traditions. They are bigger they are messier and they are infinitely more memorable. Why separate when you can combine and create a weekend that unites friend circles families and future in laws over sunset sails and cenote raves The only thing you will have to argue about is who gets the best room in the villa!
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